docs(phase4): production infrastructure documentation + runbooks

Master overview (PHASE4_PRODUCTION_INFRASTRUCTURE.md) plus five detail docs
(PRODUCTION_DEPLOYMENT, PRODUCTION_NETWORK_SECURITY, BACKUP_DR,
OBSERVABILITY, CAPACITY_PLANNING), a master PRODUCTION_VALIDATION_CHECKLIST,
and 12 runbooks (first deployment, normal deploy, rollback, Postgres
restore, VM rebuild for both hosts, Docker TLS rotation, TLS renewal, owner
recovery, stuck Lab cleanup, failed migration, backup failure, disk
failure, Lab Host resource pressure).

PRODUCTION_NETWORK_SECURITY.md prominently documents the one genuine
architectural gap this phase surfaced: the Gateway's existing
env.internal_ip mechanism for reaching a Lab container assumes Gateway and
Lab share a Docker daemon, which breaks once Labs run on a genuinely
separate rn-lab-host-01 VM. The network-policy half is built (a firewall
allowance for Gateway->Lab-Host on a published port range); the
application half (Provisioner/Gateway address handling) is an explicit,
reviewed, NOT-YET-BUILT follow-up flagged there rather than silently
decided.

Updated LAB_ARCHITECTURE.md, ENGINEERING_SOP.md, README.md, and
platform/README.md with Phase 4 pointers, consistent with how every prior
phase updated these.

Status: PHASE 4 BUILD COMPLETE / PRODUCTION DEPLOYMENT PENDING HARDWARE.

docs/PRODUCTION_VALIDATION_CHECKLIST.md

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+# Production Validation Checklist
+
+Walk this once, top to bottom, before calling a production deployment live. Every item here
+needs the real hardware — this is the "DEPLOY LATER" half of Phase 4, not something this repo
+can prove in advance.
+
+## Hardware / Proxmox
+- [ ] Disk inspection done, layout chosen and matches what's actually in the server (`docs/RUNBOOK_DISK_FAILURE.md` inspection checklist, `docs/PHASE4_PRODUCTION_INFRASTRUCTURE.md` §4)
+- [ ] Proxmox VE installed, reachable only from `management_cidr`/`proxmox_mgmt_cidr`
+- [ ] VM template built from real cloud-init (`infra/proxmox/README.md`)
+- [ ] `tofu apply` created both VMs; both boot and are SSH-reachable
+
+## Platform VM
+- [ ] `ansible-playbook site.yml` completed clean, all roles
+- [ ] `docker compose ps` shows every service healthy (postgres, provisioner, api, gateway, reverse-proxy, prometheus, alertmanager, grafana, loki, promtail, exporters)
+- [ ] `curl https://<origin>/healthz` (via Gateway) returns 200
+- [ ] `curl http://localhost:4300/healthz` (Platform API, from the VM) returns `{"ok":true,"db":"ok"}`
+- [ ] TLS certificate issued and valid for the real domain
+
+## Lab Host VM
+- [ ] Docker daemon TLS verified: `docker --tlsverify --tlscacert=... -H tcp://<lab_host_ip>:2376 info` succeeds from the Platform VM, fails from anywhere else
+- [ ] Provisioner successfully creates a real Lab against the real Lab Host
+- [ ] Gateway can actually reach that Lab's terminal — **this depends on the not-yet-built application change documented in `docs/PRODUCTION_NETWORK_SECURITY.md`'s "Known gap" section; do not mark this item done until that change has landed and been verified for real**
+- [ ] Egress proxy correctly restricts a Lab's outbound traffic (Provisioner's per-Lab `DOCKER-USER` chain)
+
+## Security
+- [ ] `infra/firewall/validate-firewall.sh` run against the real hosts with real `iptables-restore --test`, not just the structural lint
+- [ ] Confirm from an unauthorized IP: Postgres, Provisioner, Docker TLS port, Proxmox UI are all unreachable
+- [ ] Confirm Student Lab → another Lab is blocked; confirm Student Lab → Proxmox is blocked
+- [ ] `COOKIE_SECURE`/`TRUST_PROXY` active (check a real Set-Cookie header over HTTPS)
+
+## Academy (application-level smoke test)
+- [ ] Owner bootstrap login works
+- [ ] Instructor can create a cohort, roster a student
+- [ ] Student can log in, boot a Lab, complete a scenario, see progress
+- [ ] An assessment can be assigned, taken, and graded end-to-end
+- [ ] Instructor analytics dashboards populate with real data
+
+## Backup
+- [ ] Manual `backup-postgres.sh` run succeeds against real Postgres, real off-host target reachable
+- [ ] A real restore (`restore-postgres.sh` + `verify-restore.sh`) has been rehearsed at least once against a throwaway target, not just the local test harness
+- [ ] Cron job confirmed scheduled (`crontab -l`)
+
+## Observability
+- [ ] Grafana dashboard shows real data for both VMs
+- [ ] Trigger one alert deliberately (e.g. stop a service) and confirm it fires and reaches the webhook
+- [ ] Loki has logs flowing from both VMs
+
+Only once every box above is checked against the real server does the deployment graduate from
+"infrastructure package built" to "actually in production."